Hollywood has depicted many MILFs in movies like American Pie, where Finch bangs Stifler’s mom and Stifler eventually returns to favor. Young men by the thousands are hell-bent on hooking up with older women these days, because it’s casual, and they don’t have the inclination to play cat-and-mouse with younger chicks.
Cougar websites have irrefutably shattered the traditional stereotype of a man seeking only a younger woman. Older women are more prized these days, and they’re able to both have their cake and eat it. We’ve decided to help that along just a tiny bit more with this list of the finest cougar dating sites.
Cougar Life
This is a niche dating site aimed at cougars looking for male cubs, and it takes its job very seriously. The site works by catering to cougars in search of the hottest toy boys they can find and hook up with.
A majority of cougars remain young in spirit, and retain seasoned yet young bodies which have aged gracefully. Their energy generally speaks for itself.
Cougar Life has a mobile app which lets you use it from anywhere. There’s also the traditional browser-accessible website if you don’t want to download the app.
That means a young whippersnapper has the option to log in anytime and anyplace, and find older women and, maybe land a date that potentially leads to something else.
The app’s search bar lets you enter keywords, and there are filters that make it easier to pinpoint different women available in driving distance. It’s almost impossible to go wrong when you’re using this app.
Each profile comes with IM and live chat features so that you can share photos and texts in much the same way you’d go about it on Whatsapp with an acquaintance—there are no middle men here.
Some women may have neglected to log on for a long time, which means a curious cub may have to pan out to find good matches. The flip side though, is that there are lots of cubs available if you happen to be a cougar.
The app also has “Kittens” or women who are in their 20s, as well as Pumas (in their 30s), if a cub happens to prefer someone younger.
Monthly membership costs $40, but if you take the annual subscription you can get that down to $15 a month, which totals out to $168.
Ashley Madison
Having been in the news for reasons both good and bad, Ashley Madison is nevertheless still valued as a means for sexually frustrated housewives to find sex online. Cougars can use the site for free, but cubs have to pay if they exceed a 10-message limit.
The vibe is pretty different here because cougars stand guaranteed to find money-hungry and sex-crazed cubs without too much effort. Cubs, meanwhile, can find attractive women older than themselves, with the latter often willing to pay their bills. In short, each party gets what they want.
The AM profiles boast more range than most other dating websites, which means the matchmaking system is pretty accurate, thanks to a highly personalized chemistry test. Cougars and cubs can be easily found based on what answers you put in.
There’s a credit system on Ashley Madison for each action. For example, it’s five credits to send a message. Someone who’s tried the site knows to watch what they do unless they want to quickly run out of credits.
You get 100 credits for about $44 and 1000 for about $224.
Adult Friend Finder
You don’t need to be told that AFF is among the best in the world at what it offers. What you probably should know in this context though, is that it doesn’t stop at male-to-female cougar dating, and focuses mostly on the dating community as a whole. That means it’s easy to find people with fetishes, hook up in a threesome, or myriad other stuff.
AFF has its clutches everywhere, meaning even people living in small towns in the middle of nowhere stand able to find adult friends living or visiting nearby.
There are lots of older women among AFF’s users, so it’s easy to find a cougar. The filter lets you set parameters like age, sex, and location. This applied to cougars looking for cubs as well.
Women can use the site for free regardless how old they are, while men have to buy the credits that let them avail services.
Cubs generally pay $25 each month if they get a short-term plan, or $15 a month for a longer-lasting subscription.
Eharmony.com
Since the mid-‘90s, this website has held its own on the internet when it came to matching couples and setting up relationships which went on to become marriages. What it does is connect like-minded people with similar interests. One thing to be mindful of now though, is that these matches aren’t age-based unless specified in the filter. However, there are very many cougars on here looking for younger men interested in them. And they’re probably having a hard time finding cubs because the latter also have their choices broadened to include Kittens and Pumas. That means a cougar on this website is likely a bombshell if she thinks she has any chance at landing a hot cub.
All of that aside, there are all kinds of people on this site with good hearts, as opposed to the high number of psychos frequenting AFF.
