What You Should Avoid On Tinder

Meredith Golden helps people to make their Tinder profiles perfect, so it is unsurprising that she offers tips on dating with the application. Meredith Golden’s clientele entrusts her with handling their applications. After she learns about each client and what they seek, she handles the Tinder profile creation, swiping tasks and messaging until their first date. As per Golden, she has such a great success rate; anyone she has invited out on a date has not declined her request.

That is quite impressive, so it is worth discovering how Golden achieves it. The website Glamour asked Golden to pinpoint what people should no longer do in their web-based dating lives. Golden offered recommendations on making your Tinder profile more attractive, alongside your introductory messages and overall dating exercise.

Making Your Profile All About The Things You Seek From Other Tinder Users

When you describe your perfect match on Tinder, it might cause those who do not fit the description to exclude themselves from the option of dating you. So, consider making your profile on Tinder all about what you enjoy doing. Thus, you may end up attracting more people.

Negativity

Avoid being a person with a set of things that you find annoying or the types of individuals who do not apply to you on your Tinder profile. Golden recommends discussing the things you like instead of using strong terms such as despise and hate. It is a good idea.

Swiping Right On The End Of The Week

This recommendation is sort of surprising for two reasons. Firstly, Sunday nights tend to be more active than other times on dating applications. Secondly, there is a strong urge to swipe right on an inebriated Friday night. However, as for Golden, an attractive and unmarried person tries to present themselves as someone with a full and happy life. Spending a Saturday evening dating online will signal others that there is not a lot happening in your life.

Making Your First Messages All About You

According to a recent Plenty of Fish study, the messages with the maximum chance to result in marriage discussed the interests of the user. That is true for Golden’s experience on Tinder, so she suggests a question associated with something in the other person’s profile.

Posting Moody Profile Photographs

A dimly lit and brooding profile photograph may be good as your first-ever album cover picture. For online dating, however, it is better to go for a sunny and happy photograph that will make others perceive you as a positive person. As for Golden, another Tinder user’s decision to accept you has more to do with the feeling that you exude than your physical features.

Getting Into The Overtly Serious Stuff Before Meeting Someone From Tinder

There are things that everyone wants to communicate with the individual they think about dating. You should do what you feel is right and behave as per your beliefs when talking to a potential romantic partner. That said, you should think twice before sharing heavy stuff with somebody from Tinder whom you are yet to meet in person. For instance, Golden recommends not broaching your familial drama or ex until you go out with that other Tinder user. Start the exercise with what you love doing, and go deeper when you are on the date for real.

Being Embarrassed To Seek The Advice Of Your Friends

Albeit you do not plan on hiring your own Tinder profile ghostwriter, an outsider’s views can be useful to you. As per a new study, a third party is better at choosing the photographs that attract others than ourselves. As per Golden’s opinion, our friends are also likely to identify potential matches that we would overlook otherwise. Golden recommends seeking the advice of a friend who is married and who possibly better understands the subtle qualities of compatibility.